POINTS ON HOW TO IMPROVE YOUR LIFE

Personality:

1. Don’t compare your life to others’. You have no idea what their journey is all about.
2. Don’t have negative thoughts of things you cannot control. Instead invest your energy in the positive present moment
3. Don’t over do; keep your limits
4. Don’t take yourself so seriously; no one else does
5. Don’t waste your precious energy on gossip
6. Dream more while you are awake
7. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need..
8. Forget issues of the past. Don’t remind your partner of his/her mistakes of the past. That will ruin your present happiness.
9. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone. Don’t hate others.
10. Make peace with your past so it won’t spoil the present
11. No one is in charge of your happiness except you
12. Realize that life is a school and you are here to learn.
13. Problems are simply part of the curriculum that appear and fade away like algebra class but the lessons you learn will last a lifetime.
14. Smile and laugh more
15. You don’t have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.

Community:

1. Call your family often
2. Each day give something good to others
3. Forgive everyone for everything
4. Spend time with people over the age of 70 & under the age of 6
5. Try to make at least three people smile each day
6. What other people think of you is none of your business
7. Your job will not take care of you when you are sick. Your family and friends will. Stay in touch.

Life:

1. Put GOD first in anything and everything that you think, say and do.
2. GOD heals everything
3. Do the right things
4. However good or bad a situation is, it will change
5. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up
6. The best is yet to come
7. Get rid of anything that isn’t useful, beautiful or joyful
8. When you awake alive in the morning, thank GOD for it

While you practice all of the above, share this knowledge with the people you love, people you school with, people you play with, people you work with and people you live with.

Not only will it enrich YOUR life, but also that of those around you.

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There is a Chinese saying which carries the meaning that

“A speech will either prosper or ruin a nation.”

Many relationships break off because of wrong speech. When a couple is too close with each other, we always forget mutual respect and courtesy. We may say anything without considering if it would hurt the other party.

A friend and her millionaire husband visited their construction site.

A worker who wore a helmet saw her and shouted, “Hi, Emily! Remember me? We used to date in the secondary school.”

On the way home, her millionaire husband teased her, “Luckily you married me. Otherwise you will be the wife of a construction worker.”

She answered,” You should appreciate that you married me. Other wise, he will be the millionaire and not you.”

Frequently exchanging these remarks plants the seed for a bad relationship. It’s like a broken egg – cannot be reversed.

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Different people have different perception. One man’s meat could be another man’s poison. A couple bought a donkey from the market. On the way home, a boy commented, “Very stupid. Why neither of them rides on the donkey? “Upon hearing that, the husband let the wife ride on the donkey. He walked besides them. Later, an old man saw it and commented, “The husband is the head of family. How can the wife ride on the donkey while the husband is on foot?” Hearing this, the wife quickly got down and let the husband ride on the donkey.

Further on the way home, they met an old Lady. She commented, “How can the man ride on the donkey but let the wife walk. He is no gentleman.”
The husband thus quickly asked the wife to join him on the donkey. Then, they met a young man. He commented, “Poor donkey, how can you hold up the weight of two persons. They are cruel to you.” Hearing that, the husband and wife immediately climbed down from the donkey and carried it on their shoulders.

It seems to be the only choice left. Later, on a narrow bridge, the donkey was frightened and struggled. They lost their balance and fell into the river. You can never have everyone praise you, nor will everyone condemn you.. Never in the past, not at present, and never will be in the future.

Thus, do not be too bothered by others words if our conscience is clear..

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This is a true story which happened in the States. A man came out of his home to admire his new truck. To his puzzlement, his three-year-old son was happily hammering dents into the shiny paint of the truck. The man ran to his son, knocked him away, hammered the little boy’s hands into pulp as punishment. When the father calmed down, he rushed his son to the hospital.

Although the doctor tried desperately to save the crushed bones, he finally had to amputate the fingers of both the hands of the kid. When the boy woke up from the surgery & saw his bandaged stubs, he innocently said, “Daddy, I’m sorry about your truck.” Then he asked, “but when are my fingers going to grow back?” The father went home & committed suicide.

Think about this story the next time someone steps on your feet or u wish to take revenge. Think first before u lose your patience with someone u love. Trucks can be repaired.. Broken bones & hurt feelings often can’t. Too often we fail to recognize the difference between the person and the performance. We forget that forgiveness is greater than revenge.

People make mistakes. We are allowed to make mistakes. But the actions we take while in a rage will haunt us forever.

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A man found a cocoon of a butterfly.
One day a small opening appeared.
He sat and watched the butterfly for several hours
as it struggled to squeeze its body through the tiny hole.
Then it stopped, as if it couldn’t go further.

So the man decided to help the butterfly.
He took a pair of scissors and
snipped off the remaining bits of cocoon.
The butterfly emerged easily but
it had a swollen body and shriveled wings.

The man continued to watch it,
expecting that any minute the wings would enlarge
and expand enough to support the body,
Neither happened!
In fact the butterfly spent the rest of its life
crawling around.
It was never able to fly.

What the man in his kindness
and haste did not understand:
The restricting cocoon and the struggle
required by the butterfly to get through the opening
was a way of forcing the fluid from the body
into the wings so that it would be ready
for flight once that was achieved.

Sometimes struggles are exactly
what we need in our lives.
Going through life with no obstacles would cripple us.
We will not be as strong as we could have been
and we would never fly.

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Love comes through the eyes
That help me see this wonderful surprise
I see this wonderful girl
Whom of which I can always stand

Love comes through the ears
That never hear fears
They help me hear the words from you
And help me pull through

Love comes through the hands
That make you my girl
Your touch creates chills
Which make me go through many thrills

Love comes through the mouth
That will one day make you my spouse
You say the right things at the right time
Which help me keep my state of mind

Love comes through dreams
That make us gleam
I dream about life with you in it
And everything seems lit

Love comes through smiles
That extend for miles
You can see all the joy
That comes from my baby girl

Love comes through affection
That makes me feel your protection
I feel safe and secure
And always come back for more

Love comes through the seasons
That give me plenty of reasons
Reasons that I Love You
And make us true

Love comes through the heart
That makes me want to never part
Your heart is all I need to get by
Without making me cry

Love comes through me
Which will set you free
I will give you all my love
That was sent as a gift from above

Love comes through you
That is always new
You come up with the sweetest things
And I know we can handle whatever love brings

Love comes through each one of us
That makes us a must
I don’t think I’d make it without you
And your love so very true.

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When a GIRL is quiet … Millions of things are running in her mind.

When a GIRL is not arguing … She is thinking deeply.

When a GIRL looks at u with eyes full of questions … She is wondering how
Long you will be around.

When a GIRL answers ‘ I’m fine ‘ after a few seconds … She is not at all
Fine.

When a GIRL stares at you she is wondering why you are lying.

When a GIRL lays on your chest .. She is wishing for you to be hers forever.

When a GIRL wants to see you everyday… She wants to be pampered.

When a GIRL says ‘ I love you ‘ .. She means it.

When a GIRL says ‘ I miss you ‘ …. No one in this world can miss you more than
That.

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The drill sergeant making his morning announcements to a group of newcomers in a training camp, stated:

“Today, gentlemen, I have some good news and some bad news.

First, the good news Let. Asad will be setting the pace on our morning run.”
With this the platoon was overjoyed, as Let. Asad was overweight and terribly slow.

But then the drill sergeant finished his statement:
“Now for the bad news. Let. Adad will be driving a truck.”

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During training exercises, the Lieutenant driving down a
muddy back road encountered another car stuck in the mud
with a red-faced colonel at the wheel.

“Your jeep stuck, sir?” asked the Lieutenant as he pulled
alongside.

“Nope,” replied the Colonel, coming over and handing him
the keys, “Yours is.”

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During basic army training, a sergeant was telling his group how a submachine gun sprayed bullets.

He drew a circle on a blackboard and announced that it had 260 degree.

“But, sergeant, all circles have 360 degrees,” called out a conscript.

“Don’t be stupid,” the sergeant roared. “This is a small circle.”

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